The 19 Most Surprising Things About Breastfeeding

Real moms share what surprised them most on their breastfeeding journey.

1. Breastfeeding makes you hungry.

“How hungry breastfeeding makes you. Next time I will be prepared with healthier snacks rather than donuts!” – Julie M.  In the first 3 to 12 months postpartum, your body burns between 300-500 calories a day producing breast milk – definitely enough to make you hungry.

2. Breastfeeding makes you thirsty.

“The thirst. I’ve never drank so much water in my life!” – Lauren P.

3. Let-downs and leakage.

“Let downs! Leaking from the side the baby isn’t eating from! Oh, and the way my breasts spray like water hoses!” – Jacquelyn M. While some women will have leaking and/or forceful letdowns due to the release of oxytocin, not every woman experiences this.

4. Hard and painful, yet amazing.

“How something so natural could be so hard and painful. But how something so hard and painful could then turn into something so amazing. I have a special bond with my daughter no one else can have.” – Alex W.

5. That gummy grin!

“The amazing feeling you get when they make eye contact with you and pop off for a quick gummy grin before starting again.” – Miranda D.

6. The indescribable connection.

“That you can calm a baby in 3 seconds. Doesn't matter if they are mad, upset, hurt or frustrated. The connection you have with your child is indescribable.” – Mallory W.

7. It's all your newborn needs!

“How my daughter can grow and be so healthy from my milk alone.” – Cassie S.

8. It can stop your period.

“That breastfeeding can stop your period from returning.” – Alia K. While some women don’t get a period until they wean, others will get one within several months following birth. When it returns depends on a lot of factors, including your baby’s nursing patterns, how your body reacts to lactation hormones, and more.

9. You might experience cramping.

“How bad my cramps were while breastfeeding during the first few weeks after giving birth.” – Autumn S.

Many women experience menstrual-like cramps while breastfeeding. This is because the hormone oxytocin is released, which causes your uterus to contract back to its pre-pregnancy shape and size.

11. Flat nipples.

“That there is something called flat nipples!” – Allison C.W.

Some women have flat or inverted nipples, which can sometimes make breastfeeding more challenging. Learn more about breastfeeding with flat or inverted nipples and products that can help draw them out, like Medela SoftShells.

12. You can maintain a supply by exclusively pumping.

“That you can maintain a supply by exclusively pumping.” – Chasie B. Find tips on how to succeed while exclusively pumping.

14. Every breastfeeding journey is unique.

“How each journey and each baby is different. My first was easy, it was enjoyable and fun. My second, completely different. Going on 9 months and we still struggle but we will still do it!” – Dara M.

17. Support system.

“That everyone and their granny had an opinion about it! And any mama choosing to breastfeed NEEDS a support system!” – Felisha P.

18. Emotional rollercoaster.

1. “How much of an emotional rollercoaster it is!” – Michelle K.

19. Realizing how much you actually love (or loved!) it.

“I was surprised by how much I loved it...my breastfeeding journey is coming to an end and I’ve been in denial for a few weeks. I look forward to being able to create that bond with my future babies.” – Alyssa C.